How to break free and create the life you want
Break Free. Be You. Break free & create the life you want! Getting tired of the same day-in-day-out life? Are you feeling stuck in a rut or trapped in an endless loop but canât seem to break free from it? It can be frustrating to hear about how to make your life great by doing things that you canât necessarily do on a day-to-day basis because of your job and daily demands. Maybe youâre the breadwinner of the family, or maybe you have to fulfill plenty of responsibilities. You can live the life you truly want while still fulfilling your responsibilities and expectations. In this article, you will learn how to turn your life around and start living a fulfilling life. Scroll Down How do I break out of the Loop? Limitations are the things that keep us constrained inside a loop. They keep us stuck facing the same problems, having the same choices, and taking the same actions over, and over again. Some people got stuck due to circumstances, but for many people, they stay in the loop because itâs their comfort zone, where everything feels safe, easy, and certain. When youâre so safe in this comfort zone, you canât find a reason to step out of it. The first essential step to breaking out of the loop is to work on the way you think. At Healing Hearts Center, #InspiredJoseph helps people shift their paradigms and consistently turn any limitation into an achievable opportunity. The following actions are extracted from our course and will help you break free from the loop and design the life you want. Comfort & Cozy Zone Almost everyone, even the most adventurous among us, has some version of a comfort zone. Maybe you follow the same routine at the gym, or you gravitate toward a certain type of person when it comes to dating. Or maybe youâve been in the same job for ages, and just the thought of doing something else is enough to make you break out into a cold sweat. Whatever it is, a comfort zone, while comfortable, can be limitingâwhich is why stepping out of your comfort zone every once in a while can be a productive way to spark personal growth. Our Exercise Step 1. Find Our Hidden Opportunities In life, we will always have constraints of some sort. Itâs us to decide whether they become our limitations. Every obstacle has a hidden opportunity. Instead of fighting them or resigning ourselves to them, see that there are two sides to every coin. So if we want to break free from where we are, train our minds to think of opportunities instead of our limitations, an opportunity is a turning point that can create a breakthrough. All we need is to get the right focus and know exactly what is limiting us right now, not anything in the past or future. For example: Lisa is limited by her busy work schedule because it leaves her no time to spend with her family.  It stops her from having a close relationship with her husband and her children. If only she could manage her time better, then sheâd be able to spend more quality time with her family. *See how limitations can be turned into opportunities? The last statement is the opportunity statement. Find Our Hidden Opportunities (Exercise 1) Now itâs your turn to come up with your opportunity statement: Write down ⊠Iâm limited by ⊠[ the obstacle/constraint ] Because ⊠[ why itâs a limitation ]It stops me from ⊠[ the thing you want to do ]If only I could ⊠[ the achievement ] then Iâd be able to ⊠[ the new possibility ] *Once youâre clear about what you truly want and know whatâs stopping you, youâll be more driven to move forward as you now have a direction on how to turn your limitations into opportunities. Also, this is when you can start to think about what you can do to achieve that. Our Exercise Step 2. Flesh out Ideas What We Can Do After realising our hidden opportunities, itâs time to come up with exactly what we can do about these opportunities, planning the progression towards what we want. Letâs take the motherâs opportunity statement âIf only I could manage my time better, then I would spend more quality time with my family.â as an example; it helps her to reflect on what she can really do to achieve the goal:  â Set a clear time to stop working  â Discuss my workload with my manager  â Schedule time to play with my son every day after work, or during weekend  â Schedule date nights with my wife  â No work during family dinner * See how many possible ways to achieve her goal with a clear opportunity statement? Find Our Hidden Opportunities (Exercise 2) Now, itâs your turn to reflect about what you can do to achieve what you want: Write down ⊠I can âŠÂ  â   â   â Our Exercise Step 3. Restructure Your Lifestyle After brainstorming a checklist of things we can do to achieve our goal, create a concrete plan to make these things happen, invest our energy consciously. As the breadwinner for family or ourselves, it may be hard to fit all these new tasks into our busy lives. And so, reviewing our current lifestyle is necessary before trying to fit in anything new. At Healing Hearts Center, we have a course module that is dedicated to helping you master your time. One of the essential frameworks to help organize and prioritize time is the Superstructure Method. To help you start living your purpose, we can use a simplified version of the Superstructure Method: Review the roles you play in life and decide each roleâs Must-Haves tasks, tasks that are critical to do. Without it, the outcome is meaningless. As youâre looking into your daily life activities,



